Deadeye Jedi
  • 05:38 PM ET  06.20
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In light of Donte' Stallworth's outrageously lenient sentencing to 30 (actually 24) days for driving drunk and killing a man on an early morning Miami street, a cacophony of protestations has reverberated around the world of sports and the justice system. The main beef people seem to harbor is that Vick got a raw deal and Stallworth got off easy, because what Stallworth did is far more "heinous" (the mot du jour) than what Vick did. It's no stretch to understand that people in line with this philosophy believe that one human life holds immeasurably greater value than any number of canine lives. I personally believe that Stallworth should have gotten at least as long a sentence as did Vick, if not the maximum allowable by Florida state law regarding vehicular manslaughter while driving under the influence. I don't care if the man wasn't in the crosswalk; he didn't deserve to die for jaywalking, a common infraction that everyone who has ever crossed a city street has committed at one time or another.

I would argue, however, that that is not the point.

I am not going to focus on comparing human life to animal life; there is any number of religious and moral angles to be explored and exploded and wrangled inside out. I think we all know that short of sports and politics, arguing religion and morality is about as fruitless as it gets. It's more enlightening to focus instead on the psychology behind driving drunk versus that of committing willful acts of violence against living beings. To me, what Michael Vick did to those dogs is much scarier than what Donte' Stallworth did to Mario Reyes.

Take a moment to reflect on this idea. In our society, we are accustomed to a certain amount of violence and tragedy. We are accustomed to certain types of violence and tragedy. It is no exaggeration to say we are bombarded with violence and tragedy every day. To an extent, our desensitization is simply a survival mechanism; we must become inured so that we don't lose our minds from grief and nihilism. We are also implicitly accepting of a variety of irresponsible behaviors. Drinking like a fish and making very bad choices is one of those.

How often have we laughed at our drunken friend stumbling down the street shouting lewdly, after we egged him on to down just one more tequila shot? And how often have we then offered a tepid, "Hey, dude, you okay to drive?" only to nod in relief when he slurs in reply, "Yeah, man, I'm good. No worries." Because no matter how much we love him, we don't want to be the one that has to fight him for his keys, or give him cab money, or drive him back to the cuts at 2:30 in the morning. Not only because we are irresponsible friends, but because we ourselves are about to get behind the wheel of our own car knowing damned well we're over the legal limit whether we "feel" it or not. Donte' Stallworth is our funny drunk friend.

Now obviously there are some of us who have never driven drunk or let a friend drive drunk and therefore cannot be categorized as hypocrites. But this discussion isn't directed at the five of you. We hypocrites are the same people who gnash our teeth and pull our hair whenever a drunk driver kills someone. Yet it happens every day, whether we hear it in the news or not. And guess what? We accept it, whether you like it, admit it, or not. Because this is one of the types of tragedies to which we have become inured. And don't tell me you're not inured unless you're an active member of M.A.D.D or S.A.D.D. or some other organization battling to eliminate drunk driving from our streets. Until you are moved to do something about it, you're inured.

Where we start to get creeped out, feel the hairs on the back of our necks standing alert, get that queasy feeling settling into the pits of our stomachs, is when we hear tales of uncommon violence. Anyone who's watched an episode of CSI or Googled serial killers can tell you that an early warning sign is committing violence against animals. Sit down, I'm not suggesting Vick is a serial killer or will ever become one. What I am calling out is the mentality that would allow a person to enjoy torturing creatures who can feel as much pain as humans feel. Why is that entertaining? Why would someone bankroll a torture ring? Because it's a cultural thing in many parts of the South, and they were "just dogs"? Because it makes money? Because the others involved were Vick's boys? Well, excuse the hell out of me, but anyone who gets off on hanging, drowning, strangling, electrocuting or otherwise torturing another living being is a scary freaking person who has committed heinous* acts.

I believe this is why national outrage erupted around Michael Vick's crime. Not because it's "worse" than Donte' Stallworth's crime, but because we're just not used to it. We don't get it. Donte' Stallworth is by most accounts a good man who made a very bad choice that cost another human life. Millions of us get drunk and act stupid on a regular, but far, far fewer of us actively engage in or endorse the physical torture of living creatures, for any reason.

Yes, human beings are predators. No, we don't have to hunt woolly mammoths anymore; our meat comes in Styrofoam packages with all its identifiable parts removed. But we still carry within us untold violent instincts. In some ways it's too bad we no longer send our boys into the wilderness to wrestle bears in rites of passage to manhood. We need more productive and less destructive ways to vent our violent joneses. Who doesn't want to pummel the **** out of someone from time to time, often for petty stuff like someone cutting us off in traffic? We can accept that, too, because so many of us feel it. It proves that we are angry over countless things in our own lives and in the world around us that we can't do anything about. Where it begins to go awry is when someone appears to have no violence filter and can so blithely enact cruelty upon beings we perceive as helpless, such as children and animals. When someone seems to lack a part of his conscience that the rest of us take for granted everyone should possess, it stirs in us that long-buried fear of the monster under the bed. It's particularly frightening when that "monster" is a filthy rich, iconic public figure with an electric smile and superhuman talent, beloved by many thousands, with seemingly everything in the world to live for and everything to lose by making a misstep. If someone in Michael Vick's elevated position gains pleasure by participating in torture, what does that mean about the guy next door? What does it mean about you?


*heinous: hateful; odious; abominable; totally reprehensible: a heinous offense.


wicked, infamous, flagrant, flagitious, atrocious, villainous, nefarious.

 

June 20, 2009  06:11 PM ET

wow

June 20, 2009  09:35 PM ET

I can't believe Stallworth did not receive a much greater sentence but at least he did not intend to murder or kill the man.

I think it would have been much worse if he tortured the man before killing him or accidently firing off a loaded concealed weapon... He was still irresponsible but at least not in a violent way - I am not trying to give or take from the situation just adding some comparison.

June 20, 2009  11:23 PM ET

The interesting thing is that "innocent" adult humans are not considered as innocent as children. So it is easier for us to absorb the impact an adult's death than it is the death of a child. Now, if children are defined in part by a certain degree of helplessness, trust in and reliance upon other humans (i.e., adults) a case can certainly be made for our domestic animals being defined by the same characteristics. Whether or not humans are more valuable than or superior to other species isn't the point. The point is that, based on the commonly accepted mores of our society, a person who willingly participates in the suffering of helpless, trusting, dependent lives is a sick person. A person who kills another in a drunk driving accident is completely culpable and irresponsible, but isn't necessarily sick. We want the sickos behind bars so we can fool ourselves into thinking we're a little bit safer that way.

June 21, 2009  01:18 AM ET

They're both morons. A killer is a killer no matter what "COLOR" you paint the Thug ****.

June 21, 2009  02:58 AM ET

Thoughtful response.

June 21, 2009  07:09 AM ET

Well said.

I. being a former prison employee in Texas, have seen people first hand who go to prison and change. They are usually not the same when released. People make their choices knowing the consequences, and some try blaming their behavior on society...or not having a father figure, or whatever. But, they won't blame themselves for whatever reason. What separates us from animals, is the ability to think, reason, and make choices. Vick is likely not the same man he was when he was first incarcerated, for the fact he may have been exposed to gangs, or other undesirable elements. Chances are, he was not, because he was likely segregated from the general population because of his celebrity status. A prison life is a whole nother world in itself, a world I would not wish upon anyone, but people get incarcerated, get released and return again all the time.
The three guys who dragged James Byrd to death behind their truck in Jasper, Tx. several years ago, thought they were "men" when they did this heinous crime. They had served time and had joined the Aryan Nation gang while there, and had been released a few months before committing this hate crime. I saw their leader up close after they had caught them, and brought him to my unit and put him in ad seg (administration segregation). He knew he was in deep **** and was one scared puppy. Wonder what happened to his "manly" attitude? All their actions did was get them the death penalty, and they knew this, but did it anyway. One got life and the other two got the death penalty.
Jeffrey Dahmer got his start torturing animals. So, I agree with what you say, JediGurl. Again, well said.

 
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